Cutting the cord – More than a New Year’s resolution

   SACO – I might be a little late to the party, but for the past year or so, I’ve been wondering why we still had two nondescript black boxes in our house connecting the televisions to the somewhat-dated world of cable television.

Each time I visited one of my children, I noticed they embraced a far more disconnected existence. They long ago abandoned the idea of having a conventional telephone in their home and seemed to consider their cell phone as another appendage. It might not be physically connected to the rest of their body, but it was always within spitting distance.

When they moved into their new homes or apartments they understood that they needed to contact Central Maine Power, forward their mail, and a number of other mundane tasks related to changing addresses. The one thought that never seemed to cross their minds was to contact the cable company and arrange for television service.

They were the generation that came of age with Netflix, Hulu, Chromcast, Roku, Apple TV, Amazon Prime, YouTube, and many other streaming services. For them, TV and the internet were essentially the same thing.

I was from the generation that remembered fighting with your siblings about what show we were going to watch on the one TV in the house. I remember it vividly, it was the boxy black and white television where you changed the channels without a remote, just two dial knobs.

About a month ago, I decided it was time for us to follow suit. I did a bit of research and tried to determine which streaming service would work best for us. We have three televisions in the house and I’ve noticed that during the last year or so, my wife and I spend some time watching a movie or what I would describe as a TV series on our iPads. I figured we were already most of the way there.

During the holidays, I bought a new Apple TV 4K for the living room and two Roku streaming players. I fiddled a bit with the wiring for the devices and signed up for a trial run with Direct TV NOW. Within a few hours, I was ready. We still had the cable boxes, but I could test the new system.

Thrill of thrills, it worked! And better yet, It was fairly easy to use. For whatever reason, maybe it was the belief that it couldn’t be this simple, but we decided not to return the boxes and cancel our cable subscription until December 31.

When I went to the local office in Saco, it instantly became clear that I wasn’t the only 50-something who decided to call it quits. There were about 10 people in line in front of me and being the somewhat nosey neighbor, I listened as they described their particular reasons for returning their equipment and canceling the cable service.

“I just don’t watch that many channels,” said the tall man wearing a Patriots hat.

“We are not here that often and it’s too expensive,” said a couple with tans that led me to believe they would soon be heading somewhere warm.

It took me the better part of an hour to reach the counter and by that time, my explanation was short and sweet.

“I’d like to cancel my cable and telephone service,” I said, hoping the man behind the desk would simply log into the system and make the necessary adjustments. I gave him all the equipment that I had been “renting” for who knows how long.

“I just want to keep our internet service,” I said and pushed the equipment across the desk as if I were decidedly moving all my chips to the center of the table in a hi-stakes game.

“OK,” was all he said and within a minute he printed a receipt for me to sign and explained that my monthly bill would now be about half of what it was before.

It’s only been a few days, but so far, it’s all still working and I’m wondering what we might upgrade next …


See you on the roads and stay tuned – as always, if I think it’s interesting, I’ll write about it.

Thanks again for reading my stories and as always, you may purchase my novel, Homecoming: A Soldier’s Story of Loyalty, Courage, and Redemption at your local, independent bookstore or online: DavidArenstam.comBrysonTaylorPublishing.com, or Amazon.com

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Just Mercy – A significant addition to my bookshelf

    SACO – This time of year, people of all walks of life look at the calendar and often decide to make a change to some of their habits. Sometimes, they decide to eat a little less, sometimes, they decide to exercise a bit more. Whatever change they make, it is almost always done with an eye toward improvement.

This year, I’d like to use this space to write about the books I’m reading, books that I may be using in my classroom, or books that I just find interesting. I hope there’s something of interest here for you as well.


The first book I’d like to write about is the nonfiction, bestselling story titled, “Just Mercy,” by Bryan Stevenson. I first learned about the book from a fellow teacher when we were talking one day about nonfiction books that we’ve used in our classroom as a mechanism to talk about justice.

After rattling through a list of well-known books, she said that she’d like to read this book and had heard nothing but good things about the author, the content, and the writing style. Within a few days, I had a copy and within a week, I’d read it cover to cover.

The book was so compelling that when I was doing a bit of research about the author, I discovered that Stevenson had narrated an audio version of the book and it was available on Audible. Two-clicks and I too had a copy of that.

If possible, I like to hear an author speak about their work. For me, there is nothing better than listening to the writer explain what drove them to finish this work in the first place, the idea that captivated them in such a way that they had to write see it to completion. I also like to play a game and see if the voice in my head matches the real voice of the author. In this case, I was close.

This book is filled with statistics and stories about the criminal justice system and specifically the way in which the death penalty or life imprisonment is often handed out to poor, young, minority men.

When appropriate, Stevenson makes a riveting argument about the innocence of some of these men, but when appropriate, he makes it clear that some of them actually did commit the crime for which they are now incarcerated. If they are guilty of the crime for which they have been charged, he says so.

His argument is then centered on the idea that the punishment that was handed out, might not fit the crime. He also does a remarkable job of writing about the victims of the crimes. He interviews their families and tries to show or explain how the crime affected everyone connected to the event.

Overall, the book is well-written, and the narrative sections of the prose move with increasing intensity. The real test for me is my students. Without a great deal of prodding, they read the book and were anxious to talk about the specific cases and characters. That all I could ask for.

So, if you are looking for an interesting nonfiction piece about the justice system in the United States, this is a good choice. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.


See you on the roads and stay tuned – as always, if I think it’s interesting, I’ll write about it.

Thanks again for reading my stories and as always, you may purchase my novel, Homecoming: A Soldier’s Story of Loyalty, Courage, and Redemption at your local, independent bookstore or online: DavidArenstam.comBrysonTaylorPublishing.com, or Amazon.com

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Hanoi – East Meets West

2FAE999E-BE47-43D1-ACA5-32694C997A9F.jpegBorn and raised in Hanoi, the capital city of Vietnam, I have realized that this city is a combination of Eastern and Western elements in terms of architecture, cuisine, and cultural practices, with Oriental features being the major component.

Hanoi takes pride in its historical and architectural sites. Influenced by popular Chinese religious beliefs such as Buddhism, Confucianism, and Taoism, temples and pagodas in Hanoi represent the deep-rooted spiritual beliefs of many Vietnamese generations. Meanwhile, many buildings in the city center carry the French style, resulting from the French colonization. Hanoi Opera House, St. Joseph’s Cathedral, Hanoi, and Sofitel Metropole Hotel induce elegance and simply the delicacy of French Colonial architecture. Many skyscrapers and high apartment buildings also lit the city up beautifully in the evening.

Hanoi is also well-known for its delicious and nutritious dishes. Phở noodles soup and rice noodles soup with various toppings are some examples of Vietnamese cuisine, in which the balance between spices and between types of nutrition are well attended to. On the other hand, Hanoians have adopted French components into ordinary cooking recipes; for instance, we use baguette to create our famous “bánh mì,” which is similar to a Subway sandwich, yet composed of a small and short baguette and ingredients widely used in Vietnamese cuisine, such as Vietnamese pork sausage, pickled carrots and pickled, unripe papaya.

Hanoians enjoy a vivid cultural life of mostly Oriental practices and several Western ones. The traditional holidays in Vietnam, such as the Lunar New Year, the Mid-Autumn Festival, and Vietnamese Women’s Day (on 10/20), are embraced by most families, schools, and offices in Hanoi. In addition, Christmas is also secularly celebrated, if not religiously. Many people plan on having a feast, giving presents to their loved ones, especially children, and listening to Christmas carols at Christmas.

I am proud of the beauty and the heritage of my beloved city, Hanoi, and I hope we can share this adoration when you visit Hanoi!

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A Warm Christmas in GA

During my sophomore year, I flew to Atlanta to spend Christmas with a family friend. As I headed to the jetport at 4 AM, half asleep and fully aware of the cold, little did I know what a warm vacation awaited.

When I arrived at Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport, Auntie and I easily recognized each other before she gave me a big hug. (Vietnamese people usually call older people of their parents’ generations “aunts” and “uncles,” even when we are not related by blood.) The first thing she told me in the car was that we were going to a Vietnamese restaurant to have breakfast. I was immediately awakened and enthusiastically replied, “Yes!”

A few days later, we shopped at Walmart for groceries, and they sincerely urged me to pick out any snacks I wanted. Seeing that I was deciding between two kinds of Yoplait yoghurt due to my chronic indecisiveness, Auntie scooped a few cups of those flavors and her own favorites into the trolley. Uncle, her long-time partner, assured me that I was like the daughter they never had, so they would like to spoil me. During my stay, their words and actions never failed to make me feel like home.

Auntie’s nieces and nephews also reminded me of my cousins in Vietnam. We stayed up until 3 A.M. every day playing board games since everyone tried to prevent one another from winning. As the games became more intense, I suddenly recalled the times my cousins and I went all out to win a Monopoly game. Auntie’s nephews and nieces and I also went to the movies and bubble tea places more than three times a week, which reminded me of the happy memories I had with my cousins in Vietnam.

With mild winter temperatures and cordial actions from Auntie and her family, my stay in Georgia has added more loving memories to my precious collection of experiences in the United States.

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Strange

6F73C488-C4BA-4F60-9AAB-CFD4B1B0AE89It was when my family hosted my cousin’s wedding that I learned that having a boyfriend was not my only option. It was 2014, and there were no laws in Alabama — my cousin Char’s home — allowing same-sex marriage. If her and her partner had simply waited a year, they could’ve celebrated at home. They had laid in stasis for a decade, hoping the world would catch up to them — and it refused to. So they raced ahead with felicity.

I had had a steady stream of male crushes up until sixth grade, and the idea of anything different was so foreign to me. Girls like girls like boys do? Boys could be more than friends? Strange.

This was still strange to me when I met Her at the end of that year, and I was drawn to Her shy soul. I wanted to be friends instantly.

Unfortunately, it wouldn’t be until a year later that I got the chance. Our English class was taking a trip to Boston. Considering we weren’t close friends with anyone else, our socially awkward selves sat together on the bus. After bonding over a bowl of gelato at a sophisticated museum cafe, we began to sit next to each other in the mornings. Oh no, we didn’t talk, just read in close proximity. And it was enough.

At a school dance in eighth grade we bopped side by side. A passing peer called us “baes,” and we rolled with it like one would a rollercoaster. It escalated from there: we proclaimed that we were “married,” slow dancing in mockery of another’s reality. I thought about Her every second, it seemed. I began to worry when our dancing got lethargic, and I found myself staring into Her eyes for the entirety of “Stairway to Heaven.”  We were only friends, right? What is this feeling?

It was love, I realized that spring. I am about as straight as a bar of wi-fi. Hi, I’m Grace, and I like girls.

This was strangely exhilarating when our mutual friend whispered in my ear that she like likes me too, one number before my grand debut at my first dance recital. My red sequined costume swished as I shook with the possibilities. The world became a blur. Eager thumbs penned a less-than-eloquent response as I sat oblivious to the atmosphere of congratulations that follows a dance recital.

This was strangely wonderful when I mouthed the word “girlfriend’ to myself after she replied.

 

Pillar Assembly – Just another classroom

Speaking to the students in Linell Gymnasium. (Photo by David Hanright)

On Thursday, December 20, I was given the chance to speak to the entire school about one of the pillars that we use to describe our core values. There are four pillars, respect, responsibility, compassion, and investment, and when I was first asked to speak, I was told that my talk would be about responsibility. I appreciated the fact that I was asked, but I wasn’t really sure what to talk about, or even what I might do to make my five-minute speech interesting. In the end, I decided to do what seems to come naturally. I told the students a story. Who knows, I joked, it might even be true.

I hope you like it.

Sometime last week I had to get to school early for a meeting and when I arrived at the teacher’s parking lot, it was completely empty. I had my pick of the lot. That was a sure sign it was going to be a good day. It was one of those days where the temperature was well below freezing and my tires crunched and seemed to groan as I backed into my usual spot. Yes, I am a creature of habit.

As I began walking toward my classroom and the main building, I slung my trusty book bag over my shoulder, pulled my hat a little lower on my head and tried to figure out if it would be quicker to go through the front or the back of the main building.

I opted for the back door and as I approached the building I saw two boys coming from the student parking lot. Maybe its the writer in me, but for whatever reason, I decided to stop and watch them for a minute.

I didn’t recognize them. They appeared to be friends or at least acquaintances, and as they ran or jogged in the direction of the building, they managed to hit each other at least three times.

It didn’t seem as if they were trying to inflict huge amounts of pain, just a playful punch between friends. I mean that’s what teenage boys sometimes do. But then they stopped moving and one of the boys bent over. I thought he had dropped something. When he stood up and turned again toward his friend I saw the object his attention.

There was a reflective roadway marker, you know one of the bright orange fiberglass sticks that are used to mark the edge of a street, sidewalk, or driveway during the winter. It was just lying in dirt begging them to pick it up and add it to their arsenal. For a minute, I thought I was going to witness Game of Thrones, Thornton style.

But then, the boy did something unusual, or at least I thought it was unusual. He did wack his friend a bit with the stick, but as he did so, he walked away from the main building and headed toward the gym apron. One of the green utility vehicles from the maintenance department was parked there and beyond that, there was a red pickup truck. Two of the facilities staff were working early to try and get the last of the leaves picked up before the snow set in for good.

The boy with the sword, that’s how I thought of him now, yelled something to men who were working, but they had headphones on and didn’t hear him. The boy with the sword kept walking and as he got closer to the workers and their vehicles, he yelled again. This time he waved the marker and shrugged his shoulders. One of the workers pointed toward the back of the truck and the boy smiled. within a second I knew why.

With all the grace of a decorated javelin thrower, he launched the marker in a high arcing throw toward the truck. It landed in the middle of the pickup bed and as soon as the rattling stopped, a smile spread across his face. Victory. Now, the two boys were once again hitting each other and moving back toward the main building and their first block class.

I smiled too and continued walking. Even when nobody was watching, the boys had done the right thing. They acted responsibly.

I don’t have enough time to do much of anything fun at the moment. I barley have a second to myself. This is partially my own doing, as I choose to juggle as many things as I do.

Swim is the main culprit of my stolen time. I participate on two swim teams. Each team has practice every day. I attend my club team once a week because that’s as many times as I can do double practice without burning myself out. Practice goes from 6:00 to 8:45, but I have to get out early for high school practice. High school swim is top priority, as missing more than one practice jeopardizes my eligibility to swim in the meet, which occurs every Friday. High school practice goes from 7:15 to 9:00. I get back home around 9:30 and I’m hungry. Now it’s 10:00.

Homework is the second thief of my time. I try to get as much done before swim, but I usually still have some to do after. For instance, it’s currently 11:15 and I’m trying to grind out the last of the absolute monsoon of homework my teachers dumped on me this week. On average I probably go to bed at 12:00 or 1:00 every night, which is very much so less than ideal.

Why Do People Change?

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I am not the same person I was a year ago, or a month ago, or a week ago, or yesterday. I morph constantly, shedding the skin of old demeanors. I am not a better person than I was, nor am I a worse person. I am just a person.

Does this happen to everyone? Or is this just a symptom of my youth? Do adults feel the same? Is it fickleness to change one’s beliefs, or an evolution of logic? I am changing ideas, opinions, and personality. Or maybe I am not changing at all. Maybe I have constructed a self-inflicted illusion to help me cope with what I do not know.

As a child, my thoughts were very simple. My goal was to gain happiness as quickly as possible. With a brain like a cardboard puzzle, I pieced together simple pathways of thought. Want to play? Get a toy. Want to move? Go outside. Hungry? Eat. Upset? Cry.

At my age, I can now construct ideas my tiny child mind could not have begun to comprehend. I can understand religion, politics, and relationships. I can challenge the fundamental fountains of moral code. I can pick apart logical pathways. I can understand the point of view of other human beings, without having ever experienced life as them before. I have new emotions that I never experienced as a child,

But this is the same for everyone. Why do we change so dramatically? Why could not we have all stayed as simple as the animals? I like to believe that it is because each human is a complete work of art; they are a tapestry of perfection and flaws, mood and logic, hope and hopelessness, love and hate. Each human is a unique, special, beautiful masterpiece unseen before in all of history. No two people are alike.

But, even as this is, we are not so simple. This is why we change—we are not stagnant like paintings, but transforming artworks. We are nebulas, exploding constantly, expanding, changing hues, all to become one beautiful creation. My advice is to embrace the change, and to continue to love getting older; you are adding more to your beauty.

How Climate Change Is Turning Coral White

     A once vibrantly hued section of Australia’s Great Barrier Reef appears as if it were coated in a thick layer of white paint. However, the truth behind the animal’s new appearance is more devastating than a simple color change. Soon, the coral will be dead, but even in its last stages of life, the serene beauty of the coral reef remains. The cause of this stark contrast, unfortunately, is much closer to home than society may hope for.

     The white appears during a process known as bleaching, where a coral animal expels the algae that resides within its tissues.  Because the coral relies on the algae for food and energy, it will usually die shortly after a bleaching event. As a result, it loses its color, revealing the white skeleton underneath.

Coral bleaching occurs when water temperature increases, which is why coral is known as one of the first indicators of climate change. Over the past decades, as carbon emissions increased, the number of coral reefs worldwide have been decreasing.

Over the last 40 years, 80% of coral in the Caribbean have been destroyed, as well as 50% in Indonesia and the Pacific. Consequently, many ocean ecosystems that rely on coral reefs have been lost, and humans that rely on reefs to provide food are continuing to be impacted. Fortunately, all hope is not gone for the struggling animal, and for our world as a whole.

     After a coral has been bleached, it is possible for it to become healthy again. If the water temperature drops back to normal quickly after a bleaching event occurs, coral may be able to readjust and recover. As a prime climate change indicator, the extinction of coral reefs would be an ill omen for our planet. However, by moving to reduce our carbon footprint, there is a chance of protecting the remaining coral in our oceans, and taking a step in the right direction in the battle against climate change.

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A Snow Shoveling Quandary

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The first dusting of snow, that covers all that it reaches may awe someone who hasn’t had much experience with the unique white fluff, however experienced Mainers can confidently attest that is much more than this fantasyland it appears to be.

Each year as the leaves crumple up into the halves of what they once were, we know that it will soon be the beginning of winter. Although the frigid weather can be gorgeous, it is lots of hard work to keep up with daily maintenance, this includes shoveling. In many towns or communities, you may see the sidewalks cleared, however Portland is an exception to this.

Not only do they not clear the sidewalks for their residents, but instead they expect you to do this task or expect a fine. This is simply unfair. My neighbor next door is living on her own and is nearly 80 years old. Not only that, but she has a pacemaker. Her immobile and weaker physical state leaves her in no position to be shovelling, although neighbors pitch in to help one another, the result is her paying someone to to do the job for her.

Those who rely on the bus or walking to get to their destinations often times are left to the mercy of drivers, as these people are forced to risk their lives by walking on the main streets of Portland. Taxes a surely high enough that we as a city can cover the services of a company to make our sidewalks safe and clear.

At the end of the day it is the town’s job to ensure the safety and protection of its residents. This obstruction in Portland, just proves that they are not completing their job to the fullest. My neighbor should not have to worry about paying someone to shovel her sidewalk. Or fellow residents shouldn’t have to worry about walking down the road. It is time for Portland to make a change and it starts with the snow.

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