Pho is a traditional Vietnamese food (yes, I know… I did say food is an overrated subject). A bowl of authentic pho consists of: rice noodles, thinly sliced meat, and broth (and scallion!). It’s usually served with bean sprouts, a variety of fresh herbs, special pho sauces (chili sauce, hoisin sauce, soy sauce, etc.), and lime on the side. There are many versions of pho, but the most popular ones are pho Nam (southern pho) and pho Bac (northern pho). In the north, their broth is simpler. They only boil the bones for days and accompany it with the meat. In the south, however, the broth is enhanced with different spices and garnished with all the sides I mentioned above
So how exactly should a person eat pho? The answer is easy. There is no specific way to eat pho. Remember: you define pho, not pho defines you. It really is up to the person and their own personal judgement to create their own beautiful bowl of pho. I can take my way as an example. My go-to kind of pho is beef. As a southerner, I like everything to be in my bowl (well not really). First, I dip my beef in the broth so they are cooked and remain hot. Then, I put the herbs in (like cilantro and basil) to get the mouthwatering scent. After that, I would garnish my bowl with bean sprouts and chili. For the last step, I pour hoisin and chili sauce and squeeze in half a lime.
That’s my way and now you know a little bit more about pho. In the end, the answer to a delicious bowl of pho is you. Eat it your way and make it represent you. There’s no rules for anyone to follow when it comes to food. Enjoy your meal!
Subtle Asian Traits was established by a group of Asian-Australian students in 2018. Since then, it has become a big hit within the Asian community and the world in general. Up until now, the closed group has more than 1.1 million members who active interact with one another on a daily basis. The founders’ original idea is to create a group where Asian, especially descendants of immigrants, could share their stories and memes. They did not know it would become such a phenomenon in the span of a few weeks. One reason why the group rose to fame was the topic of cultural representation.
As first-gen children, they tend to be viewed as too Asian to be white and too white to be Asian. Fitting in was a struggle, because their white friends would not get the ‘Asian dad jokes’, nor do our kids understand the differences in culture. Therefore, this group is a safe place for people to appreciate their culture and tell relatable stories. There is so much support on every single thread, and much less negativity than Fox News in the year 2018. The group connects people from all over the world who support the idea and the community. Memes and rants are constantly posted and updated.
From Subtle Asian Traits, there are many smaller branches to encourage the community to reach out to each other. For instance, my favorite group is Subtle Asian Mental Health. A group of professionals is mentors of this group, therefore, all posts and comments are selected seriously. They know mental health issues is not a joke.
In the end, social media really does connect people from different backgrounds together and strengthen the community as a whole. However, do not abuse it or you’ll regret it.
Tomorrow, on January 22, I turn 17 (yay!). So, instead of writing you a normal essay (in which I usually write something very arty-farty), I will write 17 lessons/peices of advice I have learned in my (almost) 17 years of living. Mind you, a lot of these I still struggle with and do not follow, but have nearly found to be little nuggets of wisdom I have noticed in my life. Furthermore, they are in no peticular order of importance; pick and choose whatever you like the most to remember.
1. When doing homework, take breaks. I used to think that the most efficient way of working was to plow through non-stop. However, I quickly discovered that I would become tired, slow, and half-hearted in my efforts. Taking 10 to 20 minute breaks keeps you focused and energized.
2. Take care of your body. Salads do not taste as good as pizza and exercising hurts, but you will feel AWESOME afterward. Tip: do not start exercising by running for 10 miles and doing 100 squats. You will die. Start small, then work your way up.
3. My great-grandfather survived WWII, raised four girls, and climbed across long, rocky beaches into his senior years. His advice? Chocolate is “healthy for you” and ice cream is “good food.” He lived to be 94.
4. Spend time with your family. For a lot of my education, I was homeschooled. This meant that I spent a lot of time with my two brothers. I am so thankful that we are still friends and enjoy each other’s company as teenagers.
5. Things that seem mediocre now will become nostalgic later.
6. Like what you like. Confession: I like (cringe) emo music. And alternative. And flannel. And coffee. And art. Gosh darn it, I’m an accidental, stereotypical, arty-hipster-teenage-girl. Oh well. It’s better to shamelessly enjoy what you like than crumble under socialital pressure.
7. When making any work of art, whether it’s writing, performance, or visual, throw rules out the window. The old writing masters like Charles Dickens, Mark Twain, or Shakespeare never studied the rhetorical devices (sorry, Ms. Durkee). They just wrote, straight from the heart, and people loved it! (Disclaimer: if a certain Mr. Arenstam or Ms. Durkee tells you to use your vocab and rhetorical devices, please don’t be a butt. Follow the rules.)
8. Homework is hard. But imagine doing your homework,reviewing all of your classmate’s homework, personally writing comments on their homework on how they could do better, and re-telling them what the previous lesson was about because they were not paying attention in class. Teachers do all this on a daily basis. Be respectful, and turn in your work on-time.
9. Try to see your parent’s side of the story. Parenting is really hard work, and no one is perfect at it. Be respectful.
10. Sometimes, homework forces us to stay up past our bedtimes later than we prefer. However, it is still important to get at least eight hours of sleep. When I get sleep-deprived, my schoolwork suffers, creating a vicious cycle of staying up late to do homework, then working slowly the next day, forcing me to stay up and do homework…
11. Drink more water!
12. Spend time with your pets! They are so excited to see you at the end of the day. To your dog/cat/fish/etc., you are a superstar!
13. It is okay to make mistakes. Really. If you are reading this, chances are you are still growing. Growing up takes a lot of mistakes.
14. Pens are better than pencils. Their markings are always visible. and the feeling they give when they glide across a page is buttery and smooth. Plus, you do not have to resharpen them or to erase anything. What if you make a mistake, you ask? Did you not just read number 13?
15. When your friend is venting, try not to give advice. People have the inherent desire to help, but sometimes the best way to help is to just say nothing.
16. Crying is good for you! It is ok to cry, even if it’s over spilled milk. But…
17. Try to be positive! Spilling milk sucks, but you can get yourself another glass later.
By now, after years of scrolling through your instagram feeds every hour of every day, you have come to realize that it all has become so addictive, especially those ‘likes’ you are getting on the artsy photo that you just posted. So what is social media doing to my brain? Why am I so addicted to the ‘likes’ and what are they doing to my self-esteem?
Your brain releases a squirt of dopamine resulting in a physiological high each time you receive a like or positive response on social media that excites you. It’s a rewarding cycle, therefore, you continue to strive to be liked so your brain can continue to feel this addictive and natural high. When you focus your energy into impressing the people who follow you and to gaining likes, you are left feeling vulnerable as you put others opinions about you above your own. When you believe that the other people’s opinions are facts, you will have low self-esteem as a result. Low self-esteem can lead to depression and other mental health problems that can also result from not using social media safely by letting it consume a majority of your time. Social media is not used as a tool for aspiration, positivity, motivation, or as a way to connect to others by many. Instead, it makes us feel like we are less perfect than everyone else because we only see their best and most perfect moments that they choose to share.
In the end, social media and the online world are not reality, they are only parts of a virtual one. Human beings crave social interactions, the kinds that interactions on social media cannot make up for. Being dependent on positive reinforcements from sources online effect means that these factors influence your mood and behavior in real life, therefore, affecting your real life social interactions, the more important ones.
I thought it was a combination of burnout and a recovering cold. It explained why I would feel weak and have coughing fits occasionally. I thought I was getting better. I thought a lot of theories, until my dad dragged me to the clinic on Thursday and I got a call on Friday. I tested positive for pertussis, more commonly known as whooping cough. I am the third confirmed case of pertussis at Thornton Academy this year.
Pertussis is a bacterial respiratory infection that is characterized by violent coughing fits (paroxysms) that are interrupted by a big inhale, hence the “whooping.” It has three stages. First, cold-like symptoms and a low-grade fever. This lasts about a week or two, before moving to one to six weeks of paroxysms, usually more common at night. Finally, a chronic cough wraps up the illness in weeks to months.
Pertussis is highly contagious, especially so for pregnant women and babies. I try not to worry about how I could’ve exposed my dance instructor, who revealed her pregnancy to my jazz class when we returned from break. I try not to worry about how I babysat a baby— twice — in the first stage of my whooping cough.
Guilt swirls through me when I think about my significant other, who I can never resist being around. My lab group in Physics, who I was in close quarters with to finish our risky bridge. The hundred or so dancers that witnessed me coughing backstage at the Winter Dance Concert before going on once more. Anyone could’ve been exposed.
I try not to remember that more than 100,000 people around the world die from pertussis every year. I am privileged to have been vaccinated beforehand, to be on day four of the antibiotics that will rid the bacteria from my system. My family is on the antibiotics as well to avoid a bigger outbreak. So many do not have this chance. I try not to wonder why I have been chosen to survive.
So here I lay, in the bed that I am confined to, trying not to do a great many things. I will have a coughing fit soon, most likely. I hear the “whoop” now, I didn’t hear it before I was diagnosed. I will quell it with all my might, tears springing into my eyes. The alternative scares me — coughing until I can’t anymore.
Please, if you feel sick, get checked out. Who knows who has been exposed to the illness by me, by the other unnamed two, by the students and teachers who no doubt walk the halls undiagnosed. An outbreak has begun, and I would hate to see anyone else fall prey to the bacteria that lives in me.
Our class recently took a multiple choice test as a substitute for the midterm exam. The test is essentially about the content of Just Mercy – a book we started reading before Christmas break. At first, I thought we only have to study the plot, significant characters, and frequently mentioned destinations. Yet the test ended up including lots of historical questions which required us to memorize numbers. I believe most of the class did not expect that, due to the fact that 50% was the average score. In my opinion, a curve would improve our grade in the best way.
The highest score for the test was a 75%, while the lowest score was 30%. With the normal grading scale, 50% and below is considered a fail. We can use the curving method to move the scale down and alter it so that 30% is at least a D. That would help everyone pass the test, instead of having failing grades on their transcripts. Based on the AP scale provided on the board, 36% was translated to a D. From what I heard, only one person got 30% on the test. That means even if we use that scale, the lowest score is still not a passing grade.
Besides, I think adding another part to our exams would definitely not help our grade. In fact, it may lower our score. I acknowledge the fact that it would be a great practice for the AP exam, but there are consequences. We have not had many practices with rhetorical essays, so it would be challenging for us to produce a good piece within the span of 45 minutes. Not only that, the announcement of this new addition came a little too late for our mentality. With all of those being said, I think a curve would drastically increase our class’s scores and happiness.
Once upon a Saturday, while randomly scrolling through the internet, I stumbled across a movie’s poster about women’s service in the military. To be honest, I am not a movie geek at all. I could hardly ever finish a film by myself due to my short-term patience. Movies to me is only a way to socialize with friends and family. With that being said, if it was any other day, I would have skipped to another post. However, there was something about the poster that stirred up my curiosity. Being the typical ‘hi-tech student’, I googled what I don’t know. It turned out the movie focuses on the topic of comfort women. Even though it’s a Taiwanese movie about their Civil War, I want to touch on Korea and Japan in this blog.
Comfort women were women who were sent to the Japanese comfort stations during World War II. In basic language, those people became sex slaves for soldiers. Since prostitution was legal in Japan at the time, it was normal for Japanese prostitutes to volunteer to come and entertain soldiers at military camps. However, still wanting more, the Japanese found various ways to recruit foreign women at their occupied territories as an entertainment source. One of their tactics was offering jobs. Most victims thought they were going to work at a factory to provide for their struggling families, not knowing the danger outside those military vehicles. Another tactic was kidnapping. The Japanese were kidnapping girls from the age of 16 and above (some were only 13). Those girls could not bid goodbye to their parents, whom they might never get the chance to meet again. At camp, they were treated like animals. Being beaten or raped by hundreds (if not thousands) of men on a daily basis became a norm. Wounded by the war, the women had a hard time getting back to society. In some cases, their neighbors spread rumors that they willingly went to serve for the Japanese army.
The problem here is that the Japanese government would not acknowledge the crime their own nation made during World War II. At first, when the issue was brought up due to the confession of Kim Hak-sun – a Korean ex-comfort woman, the Japanese flatly rejected the existence of the system. After Kim, more women were encouraged to tell their stories. The media, especially the Korean ones, started taking interests in the issue. Thanks to that, more and more people have the chances to share their past with a wider audience. Since the criticism was phenomenal, the Japanese had to issue an apology to prevent further damage to the Japan-Korea relationships. However, is one apology enough?
“Would you dare marry a woman who has been fucked by every man, including her own brother and father?” – Paradise in Service
[Before I start this blog for real, I have something to clarify. In Vietnam, we DO NOT speak Chinese (FACT: Chinese is not a language. Cantonese and Mandarin are). We have our own unique mother tongue called Vietnamese. In all honesty, I acknowledge the fact that Vietnamese and Mandarin/Cantonese sound similar. We even borrowed words from the mentioned languages due to a long suffering history. However, it is still triggering whenever somebody talks to me in those native tongues.]
As you may have known by now, I am one heck of a proud Viet. Whenever possible, I will definitely seize the chance and start a conversation (or a thread) about cultural appreciation. Since I have already talked about clothings in my first post (and food is an overrated topic), I will discuss about the love I have for my language today.
Two days ago, I googled (when did websites and apps become actual verbs?!) the origins of the Vietnamese language. The results page was filled with threads about how ugly it sounds. Some people said our language is too nasal. Others said we have too many different tones and it’s annoying. It was a rare time something from a website (not Reddit) makes me want to kill somebody (no… I’m in no way a sociopath – but… who knows? – just kiddin’).
Anyhow, I disagree with ALL of those people. Firstly, the six Vietnamese tones help differentiate the language from others. It would take one a while to master the use of it, because one wrong stress and the meaning of the word would change completely. With tonation already in the word, we don’t even have to think about how to express our emotions the correct way. The word itself would do the job for us. Secondly, speaking Vietnamese is like reading a poem out loud. Every word matters. For instance, adults usually handout lì xì (or lucky money in English) on Lunar New Year as a form of wishing the children lots of luck. Or we call the U.S. Nước Mỹ, which means Beautiful Country. Each word we say hold its own special meaning, especially our names. In Vietnamese, my name is Thi Lam, which translates to A Blue Poem. They want my life to flow as smooth and as alluring as my name. That’s why when foreign friends ask me to translate their names, it’s difficult because I need a definition.
Even though I respect the online community’s opinions, I strongly believe that Vietnamese is a gorgeous language.
One could probably recognize Breakfast at Tiffany’s in a second, but what about its author? Truman Capote was a novelist, a writer, a playwright, and an actor. When his parents got divorced, Capote’s life took a turn. He had to move from one relative’s place to another’s. Eventually, he settled with his mother and stepfather in New York City.
Capote’s life was actively reflected in his works. For instance, in Other Voice, Other Rooms, he highlighted how the main character tried to find himself and overcame isolation. It was a way for the author to tell his own life story. On one hand, Capote was neglected by his parents for years. With that being said, over the course of time, the thought of being an outsider had been ingrained in his mind. On the other hand, he was publicly a homosexual. The journey to confirm his sexuality was a much-needed one.
I recently had the chance to read one of his works – A Diamond Guitar. The story was about a friendship between two imprisoned individuals in Mobile, Alabama. Tico Feo was a newly arrived prisoner who possessed a diamond-studded guitar, while Mr. Schaeffer was a respected elder prisoners in the community. They shared their dreams and goals with each other, while making a plan to escape the harshness of confinement. It was a lightheartedly lyrical piece. His choice of words created a beautifully depressing tone for the story.
Comparing to A Diamond Guitar, Bryan Stevenson’s novel Just Mercy was written in a more serious tone. Stevenson used facts and law jargon in order to describe his clients’ life and different situations in court. This helped emphasize the solemnity of the stories. The endings of each character were cold-hearted tragedies, one way or another. If it was not death, then it would be some sorts of separation.
Despite the vast differences in style of the two authors, I enjoyed their take on law writings. It was interesting to see how thorough one’s work could be when they have more knowledge on a subject than the other.
Truman Capote was an American author from New Orleans, Louisiana whose work was prominent in the mid 20th century. His most notable writings include the novels Breakfast at Tiffany’s and In Cold Blood.
Capote’s expertise expanded across a few different platforms of writing; throughout his career he published novels, short stories, and plays. Among his collection of short stories is his piece A Diamond Guitar which has most often been praised for its successful use of literary devices.
A Diamond Guitar is notably rich with imagery and descriptive language. Capote creates a very visual experience for the reader over the course of the story.
Taking place in rural Alabama, the story focuses on the relationship between the two main characters, a couple of convicts named Tico Feo and Mr. Schaeffer. The two form a quick and intimate bond and plan to escape together. However, upon attempting to escape, Mr. Schaeffer falls and hurts his ankle and Tico Feo leaves without him. Mr. Schaeffer is mistakenly given credit for trying to catch Tico Feo as he escapes and inherits the diamond guitar that the boy left behind.
The language in the story is vivid and poetic, illustrating clearly for the reader the events as they unfold. The characters are described effectively and their emotions and personalities are conveyed well to the audience. Because of this, the story sticks with the reader even after they’ve finished reading it.